New Year’s resolutions aren’t just for adults. This year’s end, sit down with your children and ask them what they’d like to see happen over the next 12 months.
Setting these goals can be an excellent opportunity to get children thinking about how their decisions affect their long term health and wellbeing. Resolutions that involve goals set around healthy eating, physical activity, school, and self care are all appropriate for kids.
Rather than sitting in solitude and making a list, we suggest making resolution setting a family activity. This can be done by going around in a circle and having each member of your family say something they’re proud of and something they’d like to improve. This creates a positive environment in which to goal set, and builds on a child’s ability to be self aware and reflect on the year that has passed. PBS also recommends setting family resolutions, such as pledging to eat a healthy dinner together every Friday night or going on a long hike once a month.
Inappropriate resolutions for children are ones that set out an unhealthy body image. While “lose weight” was the number one resolution for adults in 2016, children should be discouraged from setting a similar goal. Establishing an idea like “I need to lose weight” in a child can be damaging, especially as that child becomes a young adult. So even if losing weight is your resolution as a parent, avoid bringing that up with your child. Instead, resolutions should be linked to proactive and positive goals.
Without further ado, here are some healthy New Year’s Resolutions to set with your children this year, divided into the four categories listed above.
Food is possibly the area of their lives where children make the most choices. Parents have the opportunity to guide healthy eating resolutions, classifying food not as “good” or “bad,” but rather as something that should be consumed in moderation. These resolutions should look at alternatives to unhealthy food, and encourage kids to be experimental in their eating.
- I will try one new food a month, and will finish eating it even if I don’t like the taste;
- I will go to the grocery store with Dad and pick and eat one fruit that is unknown to me;
- I will drink water or milk on a daily basis, and save soda and juice for special days;
- I will eat fruit and vegetables as my afternoon snack rather than chips;
- I will bring my own healthy snack to the movie theater instead of having Mom buy me popcorn.
If your child needs some healthy eating inspiration, try introducing them to the U.S. Department of Agriculture’s MyPlate, MyWins resource, which features colorful graphics for food groups and valuable tips for how their plate should be filled.
Another excellent way to get your child more invested in the food they’re eating is to have them help prepare it! Check out Kids Can Cook Gourmet, a food blog that includes video guides on how to make different recipes.
These are important resolutions, especially at a time when more than one third of American children are considered either overweight or obese. Childhood is the best time to instill the value of physical activity in your child’s life. Why not do that through a few of the New Year’s Resolutions listed below?
- I will ride my bike to school two days a week;
- I will find a sport I like doing and join a team in order to play it regularly;
- I will spend just as much time outside playing as I do on my computer or gaming device;
- I will participate more in my school’s physical education class.
An excellent way to ensure your child is getting more physical activity is to lead by example. Find activities that you can do together — both your bodies will benefit!
These are resolutions aimed at improving a child’s academic performance. It is especially important to stay positive in this category of resolutions — parents should be regularly offering words of support about a child’s school performance and should offer help, when needed. School-based resolutions can include:
- I will improve my grades in my favorite subject by the end of the school year;
- I will attend every sport practice this semester;
- I will ask my teacher for help if I don’t understand something being talked about in class;
- I will finish all my homework before watching television at night.
If you really want to help your child accomplish their school-based resolution, sit down with their teacher and tell them what your kid has in mind for the year. That way they can nudge your child in the right direction if they’re lacking motivation.
Self and Family
These are resolutions meant to build a child’s sense of responsibility for oneself and one’s community.
This category can include resolutions such as:
- I will tell an adult when I am feeling sad or upset, rather than keeping those emotions bottled up inside;
- I will resist peer pressure at school and ask a parent if someone is trying to get me to do something I’m not sure about;
- I will make Sunday a day for family fun;
- I will volunteer in my community at least once a month.
To make each of the above resolutions more attainable, try breaking down the large resolution into a series of smaller steps. For example, if your child’s resolution is to get an A+ in English class by the end of the year, the tiny steps could involve him/her studying every night after school for 15 minutes, reading two books a month, and reviewing every test with a teacher to find areas for improvement.
Creating these smaller steps within a resolution will demonstrate to your child that goal setting is a long term process that requires a lot of work, and isn’t something just accomplished overnight.