Let’s face it–even as adults, there are certain foods that we’d like to avoid eating. However, when it comes to picky eating, it’s fair to say that children really take the biscuit. Often, as parents we struggle to convince our children to eat the right meals at the right times–even with foods we know they enjoy. Introduce a recommended daily dose of vegetables into that equation and you have the perfect recipe for headaches, tantrums, and tears. So why bother with the hassle?
Healthy doses of vegetables can benefit your child in a number of different ways. Fresh, healthy produce results in improved nutrition, an enhanced performance at school, and a decreased risk of childhood obesity. According to information provided by the U.S. Department of Agriculture, half of your plate should consist completely of fruits and vegetables.
Obviously, the people who came up with this suggestion didn’t have much experience in convincing a child to eat their fruits and veggies. Statistics have shown that only 22% of children between 2 and 5 eat their recommended daily vegetables.
Fortunately for frustrated guardians, there are some tricks and tips that could help you to prompt your child into eating more veggies.
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1. Use the “One Bite Rule”
This is a simple concept that works brilliantly on younger kids. It’s far too easy for children to decide they hate a food that they haven’t tried before just by looking at it. Push your children to try and eat at least one bite of the food that they’ve vetoed whenever you serve it. Science suggests that the more your child experiences the item, the more they’ll get used to it and begin to enjoy the taste for what it is, rather than rejecting it on principle alone.
2. Try to Make Food Fun
Children can be difficult at times, but if they’ve got one major talent, it’s in the realm of imagination. Kids love to play pretend and make games out of anything and everything. A new vegetable might be intimidating and disappointing for a child who was hoping to eat chicken nuggets, but if you turn it into a game, the task is suddenly less daunting. Transform your reluctant child into a superhero who needs to eat six carrots to see crime perfectly in the dark, or eat five pieces of broccoli for super-strength and you’ll notice the difference.
3. Don’t Push Too Hard–and Praise Success
If your children are working well on the “one bite” rule, the quickest way to spoil it is to force them into finishing their entire plate. Punishments, fighting, and conflict develop into a negative meal experience for your child, and conditioning suggests that the more pressure and discomfort you associate with an item, the more your child will grow to dislike it. When they manage the one bite, reward them with praise or a shiny sticker–anything that convinces them they’ve done a good job. Positive reinforcement is far more productive than negative pushing.
4. Shop and Cook With Your Kids
A great method for getting your children to eat more vegetables, which also connects to the “make food fun” tip above, is to get them involved in the meal process. Take them out to the local supermarkets and have them pick out examples of fresh vegetables that they might like to try. Then, once you get home, ask the child to help you prepare the vegetables. Most children will be happier to chomp through a meal of healthy veggies when they’re brimming with pride that they “made them” themselves.
5. Learn Your Child’s Vegetable Values
Most kids are under the impression that they’re invincible, so trying to convince them to eat their vegetables by telling them how healthy it is probably won’t get you far. Instead, tempt your children with tales that their veggie portions will help them to grow bigger and stronger. Appealing to their desire to grow and overcome their limitations is much more effective than simply using the “Because I told you to” approach.
Don’t Give Up!
We all have those days where our patience seems to have met its limit, but remember that the habits you teach your child now are likely to remain with them as they progress to adulthood. For their sake, it’s important to focus on solving eating issues early. Make the kitchen a fun place and create positive connotations with vegetables. You should find that, after time, your persistence pays off.
What works best for you when getting your kids to eat healthier? Let us know!